My wife has been very abusive and reacts in extreme. She seems to believe that she has been wronged and her shouting is justified. Have been married for more than 10 years and she had been having thyroid problem. She shouts without any reason and use extremely harsh words against me and my family. After shouting she herself feels victimized and appears to withdraw but never ever admits her problem. She feels she has been wronged. She is heavily influenced by her parents and brother and is spoiling my family life. She blackmails due to kids involvement. She is not prepared to talk to any counselor etc. Please suggest.